Okay soooo.
My boyfriend has this thing about my boobs. Loves 'em. No problem there, it's all cool.
However, he has this thing where he'll just randomly reach up my shirt and grab me out of nowhere and sit and touch me...which is usually also fine, but sometimes I just don't feel like being molested like that or don't want to be touched sexually at all, and when he does it anyways, I just feel weird and uncomfortable, like it almost doesn't phase him, but I know that's not the case.
However, he doesn't understand it when I push his hands away sometimes and it drives me crazy that sometimes it happens repeatedly out of nowhere, even after I've pushed his hands away a few times. I know he's not a mind reader as to when I feel like being touched like that and when I don't, so I don't get angry towards him, I just try and be like "Hey, not now", and even tell him flat-out to knock it off, and more often than not, he's compliant.
And just on a side note, he's not a bad guy and he's not abusive or anything of that sort...I honestly just think it's that he just has bad timing and maybe I need to be more firm about it.
I'm maybe not asking for advice on this so much as I'm asking if this happens with anyone else and how you deal with it. Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I don't really know how else to describe it.
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